Article: My friend breastfed my baby

A lovely story of moms helping moms:

Article: Mind-Minded Parenting

How mental state talk helps kids learn about beliefs, feelings, and the perspectives of other people - 
Mind-minded parents may also be more likely to 
• Pay attention to their baby’s gaze and interest in objects
• Imitate their infant’s actions
• Engage in sensitive, appropriate mind-minded talk—-i.e., comment on what a child seems to be feeling or thinking. For example, a parent who sees her baby looking at a toy camel might ask the baby “Do you remember seeing a camel at the zoo?” (Meins et al 2001).
• Assume that their children can understand and benefit from conversations about emotions and mental states
What does this approach do for us?
Mind-minded parenting might strengthen our attachment relationships.

Article: The Science of Attachment Parenting

I enjoyed this research based article on benefits of attachment parenting. They don't go overboard and making sweeping declarations, just reporting research results.


I like the reference to mind-minded parenting:
"Mind-minded" parents treat their children--no matter how young-- as individuals with minds, feelings, thoughts, and beliefs of their own. 
Psychologist Elizabeth Meins and her colleagues have shown that mind-minded parenting is linked with with the development of stronger empathy and perspective-taking skills in children.
- See more at: http://www.parentingscience.com/attachment-parenting.html#sthash.uimSxZJ6.dpuf

Article: Why I Post Pictures of My Children Breastfeeding


A friend of mine shared this article and I loved it from the start, but one of the last passages was actually my favorite:

"So, I post pictures of my children nursing because nursing is beautiful and ephemeral. And because by doing so, I am planting a seed. For every person who might sneer or snicker at my picture, there is an expectant mother—or a young woman who will one day become a mother—looking at the warm embrace between myself and my child. I hope she is feeling the love radiating from her screen. I hope she will pick up on how extraordinary, but entirely ordinary my picture is. I hope she will breathe a sigh of relief, knowing that she will be supported and lifted up in her choice of how to feed her child."

This is exactly what I hope to achieve with my blog. 

In a milk coma:



Passed out:



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Because Crying is Communication


From: Little Hearts Books/Gentle Parenting Resources
http://www.littleheartsbooks.com